I register myself in one online dating site. Its been a year and 2 months. I like it that it make me have a feeling that I have some power over who can talk to me and ignore who I am not interested in. I don't have to show my expression like in real, except put few photos in it.
But there are bad things like any other good thing, the bad thing for me in online dating is the annoyance of some men, specially men from this country I am currently live in. Here are few examples -
1. If I am not interested in that person who sent me messages, I normally just ignore, when once or twice ignore, majority just get it. But the men from this country (as desperate as they seem to be in real, they also seem to be desperate in world wide web too) are again an annoyance as usual, if ignore once or twice they will keep messaging, some even will say ' show some respect'. I dont reply does not mean I do not respect, its just that I am not interested in them. Simple. When I finally replied and said ' not interested', they will still come back and ask ' may I know why? '. I seriously don't see the point why they want to know the reason I am not interested in them. What if I really told them and said, 'I dont find you attractive from photo' or 'you are too young' or 'you are not what I look for',, etc... In the true sense, why don't they just move on after someone said, ' not interested'.
2. There is one guy, I remember, his message is quite long for a start opener, but its alright, but the thing is that he seem to used this opening message to all women when he message them. Its like a bot machine on spam that send the same content to a emails. I can tell he is a show-off type, from his note, 'likes to have fun', 'get attention in the center', ' live in South Delhi', his message always ends that say he lives in South Delhi (and South Delhi are expensive than the rest and they are residential area). I am not at all excited by his 'like to have fun' or the fact that he resied in South Delhi.. nada.. It just show how money minded, and judgemental is he. So annoying.
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